While a child is developing inside its mother's womb, the umbilical cord transfers nourishment to the embryo, and waste from the embryo. This 'hard wired connection' creates a form of symbiosis (A relationship of mutual benefit or dependence). Once a child is born, the umbilical cord is cut, signaling the start of a new life for this child. A life of standing on his or her own two feet, so to speak.
Now, as adults we mingle with many people along our life's path. With those people that impact us the most, ethereal 'umbilical cords' may be created. This is a form of energy linking your heart chakra or naval area to this other person. This other person could be anyone in our lives, related or not - mother, father, sibling, friend, boss, lover - anyone.
Once formed, the same symbiosis occurs as that of the child and its mother, a reliance on a person to be there, more often than not, for emotional balance. There are even feelings of extreme loss or abandonment when that person is, even for a short time, not there. When the 'child entity', feels that loss, it can greatly impact life and the functioning within that life - Control of life has been given to an outside source - the 'mother entity'. Problems in health and well-being can be countless and taxing to everyone involved - including the 'mother entity'.
There is a method of breaking that connection, or 'cutting the cord', to aid in giving freedom back without necessarily having to remove the 'mother entity' or 'child entity', in a physical sense, from one's life. If this person is a husband, or wife, you simply want to remove the emotional reliance on that person not their physical presence. Many people fear doing this as they feel it will push the other person away which, in their mind, would be worse than having them there and in control. Think of it this way, just as when a child is born, the cutting of the physical umbilical cord does not remove the Love a mother has for her child - it simply signals the child's need to 'stand on its own two feet' from that point on. This is what the cutting of the cord allows you, or the other person, to do - stand on your own two feet - removing that hard-wired connection which will, in essence, give control of life back to the individual(s).
The following process is the method I use - after reading many books. There are no hard/fast methods and it all comes down to 'intent'. If you intend to do anything (and you are being truthful to yourself), then you will accomplish it. This process can be done in a dim lit room, with candles or incense and other things to create the atmosphere/mood - or in a bright room just before you go to work. It can be a long, relaxing process, or about 30-60 seconds. This is your personal choice and makes no difference unless you feel it does. Also of note: This process may be done by either the 'mother' or the 'child' entity as the connection is mutual. It is usually the 'mother' who feels it the most as a burden to their energy.
Cutting the Cord
* What is said is personal choice and should be appropriate to the situation, but please keep in mind that the more positive the wording, even in negative circumstances, the faster the disconnect may occur. Feel good about the decision you are making and why you are making it.
This is usually an emotional process, but remember, you are simply gaining control of your life back at an energy level. This person may still be a part of that life on a physical level if you so choose! I maintain that moving forward with open eyes, clear mind and an open heart is always a requirement of life.
This cord can be formed again and again, with the same person, or another - or many at the same time. This method of cutting the cord can be done anytime you feel the cord is reforming and with each person you feel it necessary to envision. Sometimes it may take several attempts to cut the cord completely, especially if you are 'in deep'. Just keep reminding yourself of your intent and the cord will eventually vanish!
~ Randy
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Move through life with your eyes, mind and heart open, and many things will be made clear to you on your journey. Take care.
Now, as adults we mingle with many people along our life's path. With those people that impact us the most, ethereal 'umbilical cords' may be created. This is a form of energy linking your heart chakra or naval area to this other person. This other person could be anyone in our lives, related or not - mother, father, sibling, friend, boss, lover - anyone.
Once formed, the same symbiosis occurs as that of the child and its mother, a reliance on a person to be there, more often than not, for emotional balance. There are even feelings of extreme loss or abandonment when that person is, even for a short time, not there. When the 'child entity', feels that loss, it can greatly impact life and the functioning within that life - Control of life has been given to an outside source - the 'mother entity'. Problems in health and well-being can be countless and taxing to everyone involved - including the 'mother entity'.
There is a method of breaking that connection, or 'cutting the cord', to aid in giving freedom back without necessarily having to remove the 'mother entity' or 'child entity', in a physical sense, from one's life. If this person is a husband, or wife, you simply want to remove the emotional reliance on that person not their physical presence. Many people fear doing this as they feel it will push the other person away which, in their mind, would be worse than having them there and in control. Think of it this way, just as when a child is born, the cutting of the physical umbilical cord does not remove the Love a mother has for her child - it simply signals the child's need to 'stand on its own two feet' from that point on. This is what the cutting of the cord allows you, or the other person, to do - stand on your own two feet - removing that hard-wired connection which will, in essence, give control of life back to the individual(s).
The following process is the method I use - after reading many books. There are no hard/fast methods and it all comes down to 'intent'. If you intend to do anything (and you are being truthful to yourself), then you will accomplish it. This process can be done in a dim lit room, with candles or incense and other things to create the atmosphere/mood - or in a bright room just before you go to work. It can be a long, relaxing process, or about 30-60 seconds. This is your personal choice and makes no difference unless you feel it does. Also of note: This process may be done by either the 'mother' or the 'child' entity as the connection is mutual. It is usually the 'mother' who feels it the most as a burden to their energy.
Cutting the Cord
- Alone in a quiet space, stand or sit with eyes closed.
- In your mind's eye, envision the connected person standing in front of you.
- See the cord as a silver wire of energy connecting you both together either at the heart, or navel.
- Now envision in your mind's eye, that you have a large pair of silver scissors and position them to cut the cord.
- At this time, depending on your relationship to this person, you may say, out loud or silent, something like "My love for you is, and will remain strong, but I need to take control of my life." *
- With that being said, envision yourself cutting the cord with the silver scissors and this person fading out or falling back into a fluffy cloud or something pleasant and of a positive nature.
* What is said is personal choice and should be appropriate to the situation, but please keep in mind that the more positive the wording, even in negative circumstances, the faster the disconnect may occur. Feel good about the decision you are making and why you are making it.
This is usually an emotional process, but remember, you are simply gaining control of your life back at an energy level. This person may still be a part of that life on a physical level if you so choose! I maintain that moving forward with open eyes, clear mind and an open heart is always a requirement of life.
This cord can be formed again and again, with the same person, or another - or many at the same time. This method of cutting the cord can be done anytime you feel the cord is reforming and with each person you feel it necessary to envision. Sometimes it may take several attempts to cut the cord completely, especially if you are 'in deep'. Just keep reminding yourself of your intent and the cord will eventually vanish!
~ Randy
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Move through life with your eyes, mind and heart open, and many things will be made clear to you on your journey. Take care.